ManaHello, my lovely friend💕
Have you ever felt that you are doing what you love, but sometimes you feel tired or unmotivated?
Sure, because we are human. We all have emotions and when we welcome all emotions life becomes richer and we become the next version of ourselves.
A while ago I was introduced to this amazing concept of personal development, that especially when we are in a relationship we sometimes expect our partner to show us love, don’t we? But actually we can do it ourselves and I was blown away by how beautiful and magical it is.
In today’s post, I am excited to share with you 3 beautiful ways to romance yourself so you can recharge.
Let’s dive in.
1. Date with yourself
So, if you are in a relationship, where do you expect him to take you? Actually, whether you are in a relationship or not, you can always have a cafe or restaurant date by yourself.
If there’s a favourite cafe, dress up, make a reservation and enjoy the beautiful, luxurious ambience and delicious meals.
When you are in the cafe or restaurant, it is great to take photos of the ambience and send them to your loved one, but I also want you to try sometimes to turn off the phone and really enjoy the meal and the atmosphere.
Savor this precious time in your life.
Most of us are so used to texting or chatting wherever we go when we are alone, but I think it is so sacred time if you bring a mini journal and write down what you love, how you want to live your life, remind yourself what are the biggest dreams in your life in your favorite cafe.
When the environment changes beautifully, our mindset is also uplifted and energized. You might even come up with some new and gorgeous ideas!
If you are looking for a beautiful café in Paris and London, here are the places I would recommend ☕️🍰
You can also do this at home.
If you have fresh fruit at home, you can create a beautiful setting by lighting some candles, playing some classical music like this, making this kind of fruit salad, and of course dressing up even when you are at home.
2. Gift yourself
Who loves receiving a beautiful bouquet of flowers from a loved one?
Well, it is time to treat yourself.
I talked about how flowers can uplift you, I think all of nature gives and shows us unconditional love and beauty.
By the way, in case you haven’t checked it out yet, in this podcast episode I talked about how nature can teach us how to live our lives.
Choose your favorite flowers (I always love pink, white or red roses, that’s my favorite! 😄).
Enjoy them, you always deserve the best.
3. Speak with love
Most of us are quite unconscious when it comes to talking to ourselves, but how would you expect your loved ones to talk to you? And who doesn’t like compliments? 😉
Like, Honey, you look so beautiful. You are such an angel. You are so special, whatever you want your partner to say to you, you can say it to yourself, and more than that, it is so important to build a kind of strong and beautiful relationship with yourself.
The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself.
Diane Von Furstenberg
How would you like to romance yourself?
Can’t wait to hear your takeaway!
Merci!
With love,
