5 Secrets To Be An Elegant and Classy Woman

Have you ever wanted to be an elegant woman? A woman who is confident and has an alluring aura? If so, you have come to the perfect place my goddess friend.

My personal story with elegance is that when auntie gave me a book called ‘How to be an Elegant Lady with mastering beautiful manner’ when I was before my teen, (The title was something like elegant and cute, princess manner book! How adorable) I remember I was so enchanted by the book!

Since then, I have been practicing little by little, and to this day, some people leave me compliments that I have an elegant manner. Such a blessing, thank you💕

So today, I am so excited to talk about 5 secrets to upgrade so that you can become more elegant woman. I am so passionate about talking about this! Let’s get started.

1. Posture

In this digital era, how many people do you see paying attention to posture? Posture is everything when it comes to being elegant and beautiful.
If you look at ballet, it always looks elegant, doesn’t it?

The quickest and easiest way to look elegant, the most important element, is to master beautiful posture. In fact, in order to have a good posture without any effort, it is very important to exercise as a beautiful ritual to keep your muscles in the perfect position. You can start with an even small daily exercise.

First, have awareness of the posture you are in, then look up or head up, shoulders back and take a deep breath. With practice (Practice makes perfect) you will eventually get good at it. If you like to work out, I absolutely love Ballet Beautiful. It is not intense and it is based on ballet movements so you can maintain your feminine poise. I have been doing it for almost 3 years now and I can totally see the change in my body, highly recommend it.

(AND! Always put your knees together especially when you sit goddess friend! please never open😂)

2. Grooming & Details

Once you have mastered posture, let’s move on to beautiful details. Especially grooming. When it comes to grooming, it is very simple but very important to have fresh, beautiful hair, skin, teeth and nails. It does not have to be perfect, but we need to pay closer attention to be the best version of all aspects of our body.

It is also important to take care of your clothes before you wear them. If the fabric tends to wrinkle, iron it and pinch off any lint balls on the clothes.

Also, it is amazing to know what color, texture and silhouette fits your skin and body type, because the style that flatters you will look incredibly gorgeous on you.

3. Be Calm, Slower & Softer

Have you ever made something out of a ‘rush’ or ‘hurry’ to get something done and felt elegant at the same time?

By the way, I honestly believe that whenever we make something out of rushing or hurrying, even if the action is the same, the result will be different.
When it comes to elegance, class and grace, you always want to make slower movements and be in a calm state.

My personal story is that yes, I admit it. I have always eaten slowly since I was little, whenever I go to a restaurant or cafe with my friends, I am usually the last one to finish my meal and I speak very slowly (Have you ever watched our YouTube channel?) and this could be an attribute of elegance.

Let’s practice the poise of slowness and gentleness. There is no need to rush unconsciously.

Elegance means being beautiful both on the inside and out.

Coco Chanel

4. Don’t show everything. Keep it private

Elegance is often shown as an attitude. If we don’t train our brain, our brain tends to go into ‘reaction mode’ to what other people say, do or act.

In order to be elegant, it is essential to increase the inner beauty of calm, peace and confidence. One of the greatest things you can master in life is mastering how to take control of your emotions.

In this digital era, if we are not mindful, most people unconsciously show off ( such as eating on camera ) and it can be normalized but it is actually not elegant.

If it is uplifting, loving and beautiful, show it, In other words, compliments or words, attitude and behavior and if it is not kind, beautiful and loving, keep it private.

Elegance women are often confident, assertive yet soft, every word she speaks and express is very thoughtful with intention.

5. Attitude of Love & Gratitude

Lastly, to become an elegant and classy lady, we need to master confidence in our skin, which means elegant ladies always have beautiful, strong, high standards and boundaries for themselves.

What is your clear yes and no to truly honor and love yourself as you are? What makes you happy and fulfilled?

When you love yourself deeply and design and create a life around the things you truly love and adore, you become more elegant and classy.

The great thing is that when you love yourself deeply enough, you can give it to others. If you are interested in how to truly love and care for yourself, I have a great gift for you. Check it out.

Elegant women often show gratitude and love to others.

Elegance, beauty and class are always in the details. it is all about being intentional and paying attention to beautiful details.

Here are some ideas on how to be an elegant and classy woman.

1. Know what you really love and want to do (Want some guidance? Check this out)
2. Keep your head up, your heart open and keep a beautiful posture.
3. Take exquisite care of your body, mind and spirit (Want some ideas? Check this out)
4. Take the very good care of your clothes.
5. Practice mastering your emotions.
6. Mind the words you speak.
7. Have a clear boundary and standard for what is allowed and what is not allowed (You can learn more about this!)

What are your takeaways from this article?

Have a lovely day❤️

With Love & Grace,